Coping With Change
To My Beautiful Child,
Coping with change is something that I’m learning to do, to even greater extents, now that I’m a mother.
It’s as though everything changes as often as I change your nappy.
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There will be times in your life, where you will experience tremendous shifts in circumstances, thinking and feelings.
I want you to know…
In these first 8 months of your time here on earth,
I have witnessed your natural ability to embrace change, move with it graciously and fearlessly welcome it into your life.
In the last month, I have returned to some casual work, leaving you in the capable hands of your grandmother to care for you a couple of times a week.
Me going back to work has meant more changes within our family. More changes to the way I view life and what’s important to me. And how much I value my responsibility to make the best decisions I can for you.
I have changed so much.
As a mother.
As a woman.
As a person.
I reflect on the last 8 months – 2 years – 5 years – 10 years.
Wow. Sometimes I feel like a totally different person.
Often I hope the same youthful, giggly, fearless Me is still here. Always, I’m grateful for everything that has happened, that has brought me to this very perfect, present, moment.
What I know, is that there are more changes ahead for you, me and daddy.
Often I have felt the constant upheaval to be very overwhelming.
I’m doing what I can, to remain balanced and aware to help me coping with change. Even more change.
And I watch you to remind myself, that:
We were born to change.
Be grateful for every present moment, because really, that is all we have.
I love you so much.
Love,
Mummy xx
Written by Lina Nguyen
Mother’s Love Letters © 2011
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Change is good – how boring it would be if we all stayed the same!
Having a baby means rapid change in so many areas. Of course there’s the physical changes that takes place during (and after) pregnancy, but once baby’s born there’s another person in your life that’s just as important as you are. Feelings, emotions, priorities all change instantly – for one thing, you have feelings of love for your child that you never even knew existed. It’s a wonderful thing
Hi Jan
The change is relentless. It never stops! Comes on hard and fast, just like those contractions!
But, like the contractions, of course it’s completely worth every minute.
Thank you, My Friend. I appreciate you.
I love change!! If I’m not changing then I feel I am not growing. That is why I will always be the eternal nomad.
And babies are so good with change!
I used to think I was excellent at dealing with change before becoming a mum…
Motherhood though is giving me a real run for my money!
Thank you, Eternal Nomad xx
Hi Lina,
Change is good! But remember to take time for yourself…have a coffee or lunch date with a friend, and take the time to give yourself a treat (or pat on the back) because you are so worth it
You have done the most amazing job with your son, and he is a shining example of how much you love him!
I still cant believe that 8 months has gone by…gosh time flys when you are having fun.
Congratulations on getting back into the work force. You are so very lucky to have your amazing Mums support.
Cheers
Lisa
THANK YOU, Lisa.
You always know when to say the right “mummy” things…
Celebrate the change Lina!!!
You are doing a fantastic job as new mother, changing and growing together your very own bundle of joy.
The fact that you have taken this time to reflect on your change has reminded me that I need to do the same, from time to time.
I heard a saying recently that I think sums up life change pretty well.
“In life you are either Evolving or Dissolving, as nothing stays the Same”
So change is inevitable, the direction and the rate of change is up to each one of us.
So thanks for the reminder to take the time reflect.
…and remember to celebrate the change.
Cheers,
Cade
What a beautiful comment, Cade.
When you play a significant role in the creation of human life as a parent, it really creates huge shifts within you.
Celebrate The Change. Beautiful.
Thank you for your support. What a world you and Belinda are bringing your child into.